Sometimes I feel it's much more better when I could be more practical in thinking and decide things. Huh... [ngambek mode]

Forget about love, passion, hope and dreams... anything that is contained emotions inside.
Let's do what you can do, let's choose what that want you too, let's eat what you can buy to eat...
Let's work what will pay you good, let's get married when you had enough savings, let's go to where there's not jam... let's go supermarket that's nearby, let's get fall in love if the fellow fell in love... huh... [still, ngambek mode]

But I think, I've been thinking like this means the part of being really not practical... hahaha

Emosi doooong...

tauk ah.

[me, emotions]

Principle
If I understand you, then I can be more accurate in my interactions with you.

How it works
Understanding another person is perhaps the second most difficult thing to do (the most difficult thing is understanding yourself).
People are driven by complex and deep motivations, that if you can understand you can support and shape.

They have limited capabilities and are shaped by past events in their lives - many of the early ones of which may have been, at the time, traumatic.

They infer meaning that is different from what is really happening and formulate intent using faulty logic and decision processes.

They have differing preferences that lead them to behave as different 'personality types'.

...and all you need to do is understand all this.

So what?
Always spend as much time as possible trying to understand people such that you can explain their past actions and predict their likely future actions.
Demonstrating your understanding, when coupled with care and concern, is a powerful way of building trust.
When talking with them, use the same language and models as them, so they can understand what you say in their own terms.
You can also use your understanding to build tension and hence persuade them.

Taken from http://changingminds.org

-Sigh-

what is trust?

Predictability
#1 Trust means being able to predict what other people will do and what situations will occur. If we can surround ourselves with people we trust, then we can create a safe present and an even better future.

Value exchange
#2 Trust means making an exchange with someone when you do not have full knowledge about them, their intent and the things they are offering to you.

Delayed reciprocity
#3 Trust means giving something now with an expectation that it will be repaid, possibly in some unspecified way at some unspecified time in the future.

Exposed vulnerabilities
#4 Trust means enabling other people to take advantage of your vulnerabilities—but expecting that they will not do this.

The one that has impressed me now is the definition number 2.
Thank God that I have her (them) that trust me wholeheartedly...

Taken from changingminds.org

Here comes the sun, here comes the sun
And I say it's all right

Little darling, it's been a long cold lonely winter
Little darling, it feels like years since it's been here
Here comes the sun, here comes the sun
And I say it's all right

Little darling, the smiles returning to the faces
Little darling, it seems like years since it's been here
Here comes the sun, here comes the sun
And I say it's all right

Sun, sun, sun, here it comes
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes

Little darling, I feel that ice is slowly melting
Little darling, it seems like years since it's been clear
Here comes the sun, here comes the sun
And I say it's all right

Here comes the sun, here comes the sun
It's all right, it's all right

[G. Harrison - the beatles 1969 on "Abbey Road" album]


so babe, .. the Sun will always comes.. :)

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duh.. blake emang manteppppp... check this out!

spiderman 3 emang seru nih, jauh lebih seru dari 1 dan 2.
walaupun plot ceritanya agak di panjang-panjangin, tapi gak papa lah. emang penonton juga sepertinya pengen berlama lama dengan filemnya dan gak mau buru2 selesai.
2.5 jam yang menghibur. nonton deh.

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Burger King has opened their first shop in Jakarta...
Gila beneeer ngantrinya kayak ngantri sembako. Mengingat pas JCo dan Krispy Kreme buka juga sama kayak gini, emang orang Indonesia tuh doyan hal baru ya...

Tar ke Singapore borong ah... nggak perlu ngantri panjang di sana :)

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